An email in my inbox today said they felt responsible for me and that they wanted me to be part of their thing. I thought, “But it’s not about what you want but what *I* want for me.” I am in control of my life. No one else but me decides where I go, with whom I spend my time, when I buy, how much I pay, what I do or why I do it. It’s easy to be part of someone else’s agenda…especially when they’re pushy…until I know what I want.