Some people make things happen. They are decision makers and control their own destiny.

Some people like complaining. They don’t want to do anything other than sit around and complain about unfairness. A common scenario for complaining is this: Something sucks; I complain about it; It still sucks; The only thing that changed is me, now I’m upset. Complaining has no use.

I may want things to be different in my life but if don’t do anything to make things different they will always be the same.

The question is:

• Do I want things to be different or stay the same in my life?

If the answer is, “I want things to be different in my life” then do what it takes to make things different.

If the answer is, “I don’t care” then don’t do anything but just sit around and complain about wishing things were different.

Being a doer or a complainer is up to me.