I want to say things to inspire hope, not sadness. I choose to look on the bright side of life. I'm a mom to two wonderful sons, a wife to a Swedish man, and a care giver to one fluffy cat. I think deeply, like to write, and have something to say about everything. My memory is long and some memories are vivid. Our family initials are PBAJ - we didn't plan to be Peanut Butter and Jelly, it just happened! I look forward to knowing my two sons future wives, and just adore people!